Understanding self, and respecting others, as well as the environment, are key to aiding the child in becoming successful in any setting. Montessori saw a deep need for all children to feel like competent and necessary members of their group, therefore encouraging independence and applauding success is part of the Montessori method. This includes social experiences as well. Focus on understanding how to be a good friend, how to assert ones self, while understanding others, and how behavior can affect the "community" are daily lessons in the Montessori classroom. By mixing ages and abilities we create a small society of children who look to one another for help and leadership, who learn to use their strengths to support one another, and where respect for all levels of ability is exhibited.